zasmetati

1. (+ dat.) to bother; to annoy; to upset
   Zasmetalo mi je što me nisi pozvao. — It bothered me that you didn't invite me.
   Nadam se da vam muzika nije zasmetala. — I hope the music didn't bother you.
2. to get in the way; to hinder
   Kiša nam je zasmetala da završimo utakmicu. — The rain kept us from finishing the match.

The person bothered is in the dative: zasmetalo mi je.